Yep, that’s me. The Alpha Female. Which sounds pretty awesome right? Well, it is, but it also comes with its challenges. In general, alpha females can be intimidating because they are always straightforward and are not afraid to ask for what they want, how they want it, and when. There is a bit of majesticness to how strong and sufficient they are. It is beautiful, it really is. When it comes to being an alpha female and being married, the challenges are tough, tricky, and sometimes a bit ironically hilarious.

Although there is nothing quite as magnificent as a woman with confidence and ambition, (hair flip) a woman is still a woman. And a woman that is married wants a MAN. A real man, a man’s man. She wants to be loved, to be protected, taken care of, to be held, embraced, doted on, etc…   BUT an alpha female, even though yes she wants all of that, IS all of that for herself. I am all of that for myself. But, yeah sometimes it does get tiring. I have to try not to be a bigger di*k than my husband, I want to be held but wont let down even a little to let that happen. I cannot EVER be seen as weak, ever. It’s frustrating. I don’t know how to be a dainty, quiet, lover of a lady even if I wanted to. I DO however know how to love and be an amazing friend to others as well as myself.

My husband is also an alpha male and while generally as the two tend to compete for power, dominance and attention, for some reason it works pretty well for us. I love every ounce of my husband and also when he tells me to rest or let him take care of me but can’t ever admit that or else THERE GOES THE NEIGHBORHOOD. HA! My husband is exactly like me. We are 100% made for each other. And for that I am so lucky. I have always been and will always be headstrong, confident, smart, crass, sassy, and extremely smartass-y! I mean, I’m a boy-mom. I have to teach strong and kind and confident and ambition.

I don’t take medicines, I don’t take pain pills, I don’t complain, unless I’m dying then I may. I have had 3 C-sections, 2 of which I had ZERO pain meds in my spinal or afterwards, not even so much as a Tylenol. Just how I wanted it to be because, trust me, I got this. Alpha females are also funny and confident in her own skin all the time. She exudes this air about her that everyone in the room wants to know her. Challenging or not, I wouldn’t rather be any other way.  Shoutout to all of my other Alpha Females out there! Check out what Urban Dictionary says about alpha women here.

The woman who does not require validation from anyone is the most feared individual on the planet. -Mohadesa Najumi

Roar on, ladies!

Alpha Mama